Only a dollar to keep him going

Posted by Daniel Francavilla in Life, Reflections on 19-11-2009

Only a dollar to keep him going

Getting out of the subway, after a long day of class and work leaving me half asleep, a man approaches me in the darkness of the city street.

Walking slowly, hunched over, the older man quietly asks me, “Please, do you have a dollar?” Stopped in my quest of rushing home to sleep, I immediately thought what could be in my wallet.

“I just got beat up. A dollar to get something to eat,” he added faintly as I reached into my pocket. Dim streetlights revealed to me that the frail man’s head and face had bloodstains.

“Where do you want to go to eat, Tim Hortons?” I asked, pointing down the street. I grabbed the toonie that remained in my wallet and said, “here’s 2”. The man accepted the coin and quietly said thank you.

He paused and asked, “what’s – what’s your name?”. I answered, he looked at me and put his bandaged hand out to touch mine for a brief moment. Then he said, “thank you…” and walked away, limping slowly into the cold dark night.

I stood there thinking. Yes, he received what he asked for from me – but he needs so much more.

On the bus half an hour before, I had just posted a Facebook status complaining that $100 cash left my wallet that day on various things (transit passes, food, etc). This gentleman asked for the littlest amount possible, really – one dollar. Compared to the 100 times that I spent that day, and the double of that I spent on an iced tea minutes before.

Starting to walk to my residence building, I reminded myself hat this sad situation isn’t the only one, either. There are many more homeless people, individuals suffering abuse, and countless others in very unfortunate situations not just downtown Toronto but all over the world. There are needs like this amongst us – people right now outside feeling the need to be reached out to, to be helped, to be given a dollar for coffee, to have a conversation. Causes you to think how inferior and selfish your lousy, everyday complaints are, and how much the world needs your help.

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  • Felicia
    I gave a dollar to a guy the other day. but I think the fact that I said how are you with a reassuring smile was just as important. blessing to him and you daniel for sharing your story
  • Alex
    I think people don't realize the homeless are people too who are trying to make their way through their own lives, just like us
  • I always get confused in those situations. I become very conflicted with the differentiating attitudes. "Is he going to make good use of this dollar? or is this going towards his Addiction fund?" Each person has been brought into the "City Life" by various backgrounds which mold mentalities and perspectives on the environment around them. I know those who will snub homeless people commenting on their idiotic inability to get a job or their lack of strength to fight harmful desires..I also know those who will give two dollars instead of one and will have faith in their receivers power to turn their lives around and make the right choice. We are only human, and like that older man, need to make a decision.
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